Margo Anand

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Margo Anand

RHONDA WITH

MARGO ANAND

Margo Anand authored the best-selling books The Art of Sexual Ecstasy and The Art of Sexual Magic. A spirited, focused and engaging lecturer Margo shared with A Different Perspective tantric techniques called SkyDancing, which she developed. She also talked of classic tantric practices and their history. "I enjoyed Margo very much...she made a sometimes difficult subject manner extremely easy. If only she could teach the world about incorporating spirit with lovemaking, I believe we would be in a more balanced state of consciousness...thus peace."

Excerpt from interview.....

Rhonda Anderson --- "Welcome to A Different Perspective we are talking with Margo Anand about Sacred Sexuality.

Margo Anand---"Yes, we are and it feels good."

Rhonda---"You've talked about the importance of containing orgasmic energy. Can you explain to us what you mean and how do we achieve this?"

Margo ---"Well you see normally; um actually there is quote in my book The Art of Sexual Magic I would like to read for you that will explain the entire thing."

Rhonda---"Please go ahead I would love for you to."

Margo---"The average orgasm in America is only 10 seconds long…".

Rhonda---"Oh no!" (laughing)

Margo---"The average frequency is once a week…"

Rhonda---"Oh no! (laughing)

Margo---(laughing…then proceeds)" That's 20 seconds a week. That's about 1 and a half minutes a month about 18 minutes a year. In 50 years that is about 15 hours. For 15 hours of ecstasy we devote how many thousands and thousands of hours, thinking about sex, worrying about sex, daydreaming about sex, wishing for sex and planning for sex, so I am here to tell you that we can all reverse the equation! Okay?

Rhonda---"Great let's hear it!"

Margo---"You could be spending thousand of hours expanding the orgasm while spending 10 seconds thinking about it. To do this you must understand there are two kinds of orgasms. The first is the explosive orgasm for release which ends with the ejaculation of the man where the male partner is spent and there is no more contact. The other is the implosive orgasm of expansion where you take the sexual energy and you open an inner channel which is similar as the meridians in acupuncture which I call the Inner Flute. It is the channel which connects sex with the brain which allows you, like a highway to circulate your orgasmic energy from the sexual act to the belly to the heart to the throat to the third eye and as it reaches each of these points it rejuvenates the endocrine system. For example, you circulate energy to the adrenals, the thymus which has to do with your resistance to illness and the thyroid which regulate the metabolism so as you can see it is very important this sacred sexuality in staying young and promoting longevity. To balance your hormones is to be able to channel your orgasmic energy...it is very simple to do .. when you make love have developed more control over your sexual muscles so that when your are inside of each other the woman holds the penis of the man tight and close. The man really by having stronger muscles can hold his erection for longer moments and at that moment they calibrate by harmonizing the movement of the muscles with the breath so when they inhale they tighten the muscles and they pull the energy up and in and when they exhale they let the energy out to their partner ....so there is this movement of ...I pull it up and I give it back to you. It is as if you are saying " I take you into my heart, I tighten my muscles and I take you as part of me. I give myself to you and I exhale and relax my muscles and let all my juices flow into you."

Rhonda---"A beautiful way of expressing lovemaking."

Margo---"Yeah, I mean that’s the way to circulate the energy you see and that’s the way to contain the high excitement of orgasm. The next secret which is very important it is the art of relaxing in high arousal."

Rhonda ---"So this would prevent men from having premature ejaculations."

Margo---"Absolutely, that’s absolutely the best secret. So, that when people make love and they are excited and they have the male way of approaching it through thrusting when it gets to an intense excitement instead of going for it and wanting an immediate orgasm, they let go for a moment , relax, they let the energy diffuse through the whole body. Everyone loves this because you have the yin and the yang the receptive and the active....you see you can assimilate the act ....then you begin again exciting each other until you reach that peak once again and then once again you relax What you have is climbing then leveling, climbing then leveling and every time you have to be disciplined enough to be willing to give up the first degree of orgasm so that you keep building up to contain more excitement so that finally when you to have an organism it is wonderful and it last for more than 10 seconds."

Laughter

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